Boundries

At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. -GREYS ANATOMY


Stop putting up boundries. This is what I have to repeat to myself. It shocks most people. They say, "But you're so outgoing! Why would you have boundries?" First of all, you don't know me. Second, you.dont.know.me. Yeah sure, I seem outgoing-I AM outgoing in parts of my life...at least, the parts I let you see. I can't help it. I just can't. I guess its hard for  a lot of people to understand where I'm coming from. Most people my age haven't been through half of the crap I've been through- or rather, put myself through. But then, people who are older say "I'm too young to have experienced life"...BULL. I just laugh, because if they knew HALF of the stuff I've been through, they'd probably have a heartattack. Its harder for people who have been hurt to just jump back in the game. There is an unspoken fear...we don't like to talk about it..we don't even like to think about it. But its always there. Everytime we get closer to improvement or moving on, it pops back into our minds. I know, I understand. Most people don't understand. Even family doesn't...they've either never been in relationships or have almost perfect ones. Good for them...I know that sounds sarcastic but I really am happy for them! So as easy as it is to say "stop putting up boundries" it's gonna take a lifetime to actually achieve.

As The Voice Fades

Fading memories-One of my least favorite things. I try so hard to remember her voice, her face, the calm of her presence..the comfort of her touch....its fading. My aunt was one of the most important people of my life. I had just gotten used to life without her until I really started remembering some of our conversations. Just before she died we talked about the big moments coming up in my life..my first day of high school, my first date, my first prom, my 16th birthday, my graduation day...all of the big moments for teenagers. She gave me advice that only an aunt can give to her niece. Such wisdom...and such grace. I never questioned if she really loved me..really cared about me and had my best intrest at heart. I know she did-without a shadow of a doubt. Its been 8 years and I remember it like it was yesterday. The pain. The disbelief. It still hurts. I know its not supposed to..I know that the rest of my family has moved on...but I can't. I need those talks with her...especially now in the next few years. Talks with my mother and sisters are good...but they come no where close to my Julie talks. I guess, in a way, I still use music to try to be close to her. We always shared music...she understood what music meant to me, even though I was just a little kid. That was part of our connection. She understood how just one song could change my mood, and the first song I hear in the morning sets the tone for my whole day. She got it...she got me. So yes...I do use music to try to keep that connection alive. Is that bad? If it is, I don't care. I'm not giving it up. And I'm not letting her fade anymore.

Realizations

In one month my high school career is half over. I only have 2 school and club volleyball seasons left. (Only 1 for scouts to look at me.) That is so depressing. I love high school.

^^ That is how I thought up until this week. Now I have somewhat of a new outlook. College is gonna be stinkin awesome. I love high school and high school sports, but college volleyball is gonna be beast. I don't need to waste time being sad over all the ends that are fast approaching...I need to be excited about all the new beginnings! The good times- they come and go, as do the bad. But there's no point in sitting around and watching my life go by.

As my life moves on, I'll remember these times. These special memories, with the people that I love.

This post wasn't a particularly deep one...but hey, they all can't be fabulous.

There are two tragedies in life: one is to lose your heart's desire, the other is to gain it."  -- George Bernard Shaw



As far as I’m concerned, Shaw was a punk! 'Cause you know what? Tragedies happen. What're you gonna do, give up? Quit? No. I realize now that when your heart breaks, you gotta fight to make sure you’re still alive. 'Cause you are, and that pain you feel: it's life. The confusion and fear.. that's there to remind you that somewhere out there is something better. And that something is worth fighting for."
-OTH

Its about that time..

Spring(n)-The season of growth.

Its spring time. For me, spring is almost like a refresher. Hence the "spring break". After spring break I know that I'm almost done with the school year. Its almost time for summer...this year, I'm doing spring differently. Normally, I just wait for summer. I don't really do anything during the spring...my spring break is literally all of spring. Not this year. This year, spring is gonna be my clutch time. Its time to amp it up and go hard. I'm halfway done with my entire high school career....scary. Spring is now mine. Summer will come soon enough, just sitting back and waiting won't do any good.

                  Until next time,

                            Tay <3

Therapy

I have 2 forms of therapy. Music & Athletics. There is a song for every mood I’m in. People make fun of me because my ipod is so diverse. Well, I have a lot of moods, therefore a lot of songs. Pretty much any sport is my form of release. Right now it’s volleyball season. I let it out on the court. All my anger, confusion, fear, everything. I try not to take it out on people, but that doesn’t always work. But sports, that works. I’ve always been athletic..I’ve always been musical, thanks to the Lord for giving me these gifts. Those things are always there. Friends come and go, guys come and go, even family sometimes comes and goes. But I always have my forms of therapy and my Savior.

Long time no talk

Haven't been on in a while! Sorry guys.. :) But things have been a little crazy around here. I've got a few changes coming up pretty fast. I will now be helping to lead a 7th grade discipleship group! I'm actually pretty excited. I'm also doing impact weekend with first north...EXTREMELY excited! Its so close to being spring break...To me, spring break is saying, "okay you're ALMOST done!" But its kind of a tease. Its just like summer, but you cant have summer for another month. Lame. Either way, summer is close...gonna be one to remember ;)